What’s real to me may not be real to you. Our perceptions of reality couldn’t be further from each other. We make different meanings out of the same event. This is why we feel lonely. And being understood feels amazing. We are relational. The back and forth does something to our brain and our heart.… Read More: Security & Risk Mix »
Fall is near. The sudden change of colors is pointing me to examine my own rhythms. For someone who follows a loose schedule, I had a sudden curiosity of what I actually do on a random day. I have a good idea of when I am most productive during the day. I don’t know how… Read More: Schedule Audit »
What goes into your head when you think of giving up? I think of stagnation, death and misery. I think of becoming homeless. I think of suicide. I think of concerned loved ones. I think of a bleak and doomed future. In short monkey terms, my brain believes: giving up, bad. I have the deep… Read More: On Giving up »
Dear readers, Hi. Hello. Sunny where you are? Any practical tips on facing day-to-day racism and sexism? My light opening. Comedy. Or moving to a different country. My top two solutions. A third easy choice: becoming a vigilante. I am invisible most of the time. No one will remember I was there. They cannot even… Read More: How’s life? – August 2021 »
How has technology shaped my life? – I no longer need a watch or TV, yet I spend so much time in front of a screen. What kind of progress have I made in the past 10 years? – I like myself now. How am I different compared with pre-Covid? – I enjoy cooking more.… Read More: Spontaneous Q & A »
Err, err, err, so I can learn, learn and learn some more. Mistakes I have made: Assume people act rationally. Assume I act rationally. No. No. No. Logic through emotions. Lie to myself. Trust untrustworthy people. Give untrustworthy people second chances. Attempt to convince others. Attempt to change others. Hold onto relationships that have run… Read More: Mistakes »
Dear Readers, Have you been reading? Writing? Doing anything you enjoy? I will say that staying vertical and being a semi-functional and responsible adult (for me at least) is a miracle. I am gaining some strength to write again. Not much but I will take it. I was forced to take a full stop and… Read More: How’s Life? – July 2021 »